For we are members of His body, of His flesh, and of His bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh (Eph 5:30-31) ~~ Marriage Is one big journey from selfishness to selflessness. As God gave up everything He had in His son Jesus; A husband in God’s will for marriage will give up he is and everything he has in order to make sure his wife has what she needs and his marriage is sustainable. No matter how big the sacrifice, meeting her needs becomes his priority. When a wife is dealing with a troubling situation the husband should be willing to be the bad guy. He’ll get as dirty as he has to in order to keep her clean. , and the best way to do this is by learning and living according to the Bible. Ephesians 5 calls husbands to “” Men, Our charge is not to dog our wives, or point out their shortcomings, but to . Yes, the “church” has some issues, but Christ sees something different. Just the same if our wives have some issues, we are to see and reveal her beauty, not ridicule or punish her for her issues or expose her negatively. We are to nourish and protect her integrity; be compassionate and patient through her pains and stresses; and be supportive and a partner through her trials! Most people treat themselves better than they treat others. We make exceptions and excuses for the same mistakes we condemn in other people. But with our wives, we should . Husbands should treat their wives with the utmost care and concern. One of our biggest roles as a husband is to become one with our wife. The Bible actually says “” That means to . Even if it means separating from other people (yes, even our blood families!!) or ways of life or other things that come against your union. Once you become one, nothing can keep you apart.